Whether you are thinking about going cross country or to another country, if you have children and you’re in the midst of a divorce or legal separation, speak with a child custody attorney before packing your bags. Ask the attorney if you can legally take your children away for Christmas without your husband’s consent or whether you must get the court’s permission before doing so. If you take off with the children in violation of a court order, you could end up in big trouble! Don’t take any chances. Get your trip pre-approved by your Family Court judge or by written agreement with your spouse (ex-spouse) that details your travels.

This is not legal advice. You should consult an attorney if you have legal questions that relate to your specific divorce.