Comments on: Ask the Singlescoach®, written by Nina Atwood http://www.themodernwomansdivorceguide.com/blog/ask-the-singlescoach%c2%ae-written-by-nina-atwood/ Helene L. Taylor, Esq. Thu, 22 Dec 2011 19:41:38 -0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: ronda http://www.themodernwomansdivorceguide.com/blog/ask-the-singlescoach%c2%ae-written-by-nina-atwood/#comment-88 ronda Sat, 23 Feb 2008 22:43:46 +0000 http://www.themodernwomansdivorceguide.com/2008/02/ask-the-singlescoach%c2%ae-written-by-nina-atwood#comment-88 Hello, Nina This very thing,that Teri experienced happened to me last winter. I was newly divorced after 25 year marriage .I was introduced to someone by a mutual friend who was also divorced after 18 year marriage. We bonded immediatley,we had so much in common.We became intimated after a month of dating. We dated for 5 months when he politely said ,things happend too fast and that he felt no chemistry when we were together,which left me hurt because I felt like we were best friends with possibilities of more. My question is we have resumed seeing each other and talking on the phone.We have been dating over the last three months,(about 3 or 4 times a month).We have fun together,he gets me ,and I feel like I have known him all my life. We have not become intimate(past a hug and quick kiss goodnight). I am afraid to make the first move.I don't want to scare him away, What are the signs,of what kind of relationship he is ready for? Or is he just being cautious like me? If I come straight out and ask him I am afraid of ruining all possibilites of any relationship with him. Sincerely, Ronda l Hello, Nina

This very thing,that Teri experienced
happened to me last winter. I was newly divorced after 25 year marriage .I was introduced to someone by a mutual friend who was also divorced
after 18 year marriage. We bonded immediatley,we had so much in common.We became intimated after a month of
dating. We dated for 5 months when he politely said ,things happend too fast and that he
felt no chemistry when we were together,which left me hurt because I felt
like we were
best friends with possibilities of more.
My question is we have resumed seeing each other and talking on the phone.We have been
dating over the last three months,(about 3 or 4 times a month).We have fun together,he gets me ,and I feel like I have known him all my life.
We have not become intimate(past a hug and quick kiss goodnight). I am afraid to make the first move.I don’t want to scare him away,
What are the signs,of what kind of relationship he is ready for? Or
is he just being cautious like me? If I come straight out and ask him I am afraid of ruining all
possibilites of any relationship with him.

Sincerely,
Ronda
l

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