During the course of your divorce you will probably have several opportunities to negotiate a divorce settlement. Your husband may approach you informally, the court may order a pre-trial settlement conference or your lawyer may schedule a private mediation. Irrespective of how the negotiations arise, take advantage of the situation. Always listen to your husband’s offers so you can get a sense of his position, carefully weigh your options then, determine how to proceed. Be prepared with a general strategy but never play games, which could cost you later in the divorce.

For more information on successfully settling your case and getting what you want, read Settlement Conference Success and Divorce Mediation Planning, and use our Divorce Issues Checklist.

This article is not legal advice. You should consult an attorney if you have legal questions that relate to your specific divorce.

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