If you are thinking about divorce, you may be telling yourself you can’t survive on your own. Don’t trick yourself into believing this. Divorce is life-altering. It can change everything, including where you live, the amount of time you spend with your children, how you spend your money and whether or not you work. These changes are often difficult, but with proper planning you can survive and become stronger, happier and more successful than ever before.

If you can’t imagine being happier after divorce, read Ashton Applewhite’s book Cutting Loose: Why Women Who End Their Marriages Do So Well (see our list of Divorce Books) . If, on the other hand, you already sense life will be better after divorce, take these steps to make sure you are being reasonable and, if you are, to begin planning for divorce. More…

This article is not legal advice. You should consult an attorney if you have legal questions that relate to your specific divorce.

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